So you want the ambition back and you want it to burn longer and brighter.
What I highly recommend you do is to start gathering all the reasons why
You want to be very successful in both your academics and in future
Write down each reason why. And separate your academics with your love life.
Before you do this though, you want to make sure you really know what you want
in both your academic and love relationships.
For example, are you really exited about becoming an engineer or are you choosing
this type of job because your parents want you to. Make sure you know first what
type of career you would love to go after.
The more you know yourself the easier it's going to be.
Same thing with your love life. What are you really looking for in your love life right now.
Are you looking for tons of one night stands or a long term relationship.
Which ever one you choose, commit yourself to it.
I also recommend that you take time to think about what your real ideal women would be like.
Write down all the physical features that she would have as well as what character and
personality traits would she have.
This will serve you better once you decide to go after a long term relationship but ultimately
what you end up doing here is creating standards for yourself which women absolutely
love that about men.
Anyways, after you have really identified what it is that you really want in both your love life and
academic life, then write down all the reasons WHY you want what you want in both areas.
This is the key to keeping your ambition alive for the long term.
One last tip of awesome advice is that after you have made a final copy of what it is that you
really want in both areas (make them separate) and you have identified the why in both of them
as well, look over those two separate pieces of papers once a day. Two times a day if you want.
Create a vision board for yourself as well. You can create that on word. Add it to your desk top, and
put one in your room where you will see it everyday.