So I went on my date with Sam at a cafe. We talked for a while and got along really well. Shes fun to talk to and she was pretty excited about the second date.
She told me that she just got out of a relationship and she was cautious about getting into a relationship and I said that was cool well just see what happens.
Anyways we have a lot in common. She told me she thought I was really interesting and would like me to meet some of her friends after by I told her I was hanging out with some friends after and that I couldn't go but maybe we can meet up after. I kinda didnt want to seem like Id just ditch my friends for her.
If there's one thing I found that I could have done better on the date is escalate touch a lot more. I pretty much did nothing in that regard. There were opportunities that I had that I missed. Like when she was playing around with my phone I could have touched her hands more and maybe a missed opportunity to play footsie lol. But she would have totally been down with any kind of touch if I had initiated I just didnt feel comfortable enough at the time for what ever reason.
after the coffee shop I walked her to her car and we hugged and said goodbyes and that was the end.
So after that date I was thinking to myself even though she seems interested I didnt really demonstrate my sexual intentions well enough. I mean its probably obvious that I'm not trying to be just friends but at the same time I may have started over thinking things.
So now im like how can I make up for the fact that I didnt escalate for insecure fear of being friendzoned.....and so in a moment of weakness lol....i started texting.
but it basically went something like this as best as i can recall
me >> "youre right. black keys is pretty good"
her >> "arnt they? listen to these songs..*songs*"
me >> "will do. btw i have a confession. you have sexy legs. I was totally checking them out on the way to your car"
her >> "haha i dont think ive ever gotten that one" --- [which is weird cos she does have nice legs]
me >> "well what compliments do you usually get"
her >> "not sure. im not good at taking compliments"
me >> "lol weirdo "
her >> "Lol whatEVER"
me >> "ill keep that in mind. ill just make fun of you instead"
me >> "i kidding btw. I like giving compliments but teasing is so much fun" ---- [i know neve double text]
her >> "haha yeah. gotta give it to someone who can take it though"
me >> "If i do it right youll probably like it__#smooth.as.fuck lol"
me >> "do you have much dating experience?"
her >> "nope. im not really into dating" ---- [or some similarly weird answer]
me >> "i feel like dating is such an american thing. like i said im down to just see what happens"
her >> "agreed. and thanks for being open minded"
Something doesnt smell right guys. Im really not sure if my texting threw things off. I think gonna take the rule seriously that says only text to set up dates. texting is damn deadly.
Im gonna make a meme that says "Texting....not even once"
i noticed shes not much of a texter either. maybe that was a hint. well see what happens and if she changes her mind about going out with me next week which she seemed really excited about.
To be honest I think im just over thinking this as ive often done in the past. Tell me what you think