Hello just looking for a advice.
Basically I have been chatting to a girl from work, we got on fine and the attraction was mutual. She said she is interested and what not. I set up a date with her however i overslept and missed out. She wasn't happy but forgive me. Second time i ask her to meet up. She said "I CAN DO, ILL LET YOU KNOW". I replied i will finish work in evening. We both didn't message each other during the day and i thought the date was off, i received a message later saying: we was suppose to meet? i obviously explained her that i misunderstood her text as i was hoping that you would let me know what time we going to meet up. Cut the long story short: i asked her out again to meet up on Friday she said i am a bit drunk can you please ask me when i am sober up as i feel I'm going to forget this conversation. I again misunderstood, i thought she had agreed to meet up and wants me remind her about the date. She obviously replied no we didn't plan anything and you did get it wrong etc. I asked what is the plans for the weekend and i didn't get any reply. WHAT SHOULD I DO? I really like this girl and she is somewhat interested in me but she might have thought that I'm being flaky when i am not ??
She would usually reach out first and sometimes i would. we had romantic chats and what not but I'm frustrated that i have invested so much emotionally and i cant move on.
MY ACTION PLAN
To text her and say something along the lines of: Hey XYZ i have not heard from you for a while and hope things are good and if she doesn't reply then i would say it would of been nice if you had told me that it is not working out instead of ghosting me.
TO Meet her at work and apologise face to face and explain what happened and see if she is till interested.
Apply no contact rule.
Any suggestions would be appreciated.