Glad to hear that you will be taking action on improving your dating and social skills.
I want to remind you that what you want to be building is a lifestyle. Know that for now on you will be building a new way of living life. You will be doing this in your pace without comparing yourself with other people. Mainly what you will be doing now is replacing old habits with new and more desirable habits.
Remember, we are not trying to create a "temporary cure " where you will be social and outgoing for a short period and then become reclusive and stay like that. I stress to go through this new journey in your own healthy pace so you don't give up.
Now, where to start? Glad to hear that you have contacted Nick. Now where you really want to start is with your mindset. How do you really view yourself, what deep thoughts do you have about yourself, beliefs about you and women, and beliefs about how people in general view you?
Are they positive or negative?
You want to make sure they are positive of course.
You make sure this happens by writing down how the best version of you would be. What would the best version of you be like? Write down at least 15 qualities that the best version of you would have and write them in the present tense.
(The reason why is because your thoughts influence your actions. People can see how you view yourself by looking at your actions.You won't fool people that you are confident for too long if you are not. Same with other qualities)
Example: Let's say you want to be more confident in general. You would write down "I am confident in all situations." You would repeat this affirmation twice a day to yourself. (out loud not in your mind) Do this for at least 15 qualities that you wish to have.
With weeks and months that go by (cause it won't happen over night) you will automatically see yourself acting differently. You will be becoming the man that you say you are in your affirmations.
This is so easy and very powerful but not everybody knows this. Go to most dating coaches and they would recommend you to do this or something along the lines of this.
It's great that you are getting advice from Nick. You can also get more of my advice by going to my website on my profile. You will get a free ebook that will skyrocket your self-confidence with women.