So, here we go!
BIO: Second year IT student. Quite social, learning 2 languages, cricketer, love music and animals!
GOALS: Well, I do not really want to have casual hook-ups, but am looking to date attractive girls who have a great personality. Hopefully find someone worth keeping but I have a feeling it will happen when I meet an online friend, but that will happen a few years later so in the meantime, I am just friendly flirting with her once she is less mad at me.
-Went into my favourite cafe in uni. The cute barista who I talked to a little bit sees me and smiles and waves at me. I smile back. Last time, we got to know each other because she forgot my change. I came later and had a very good convo with her while ordering. I said she "Has a very sweet voice". She reacted is a funny way. She was keeping eye contact with me all the time and smiling. We have Spanish in common and we both are outgoing. Thinking about asking her out soon.
-Saw a random blonde laying on the recliner shortly afterward. I sat on the recliner next to her. She gave me a smile first. I decided to talk. We had a really deep convo and she was very interested in what I had to say. She mentioned she had a boyfriend so I obviously decided to pursue a platonic friendship with her. Strictly friendship because I enjoyed her company and I do not wanna mess with her. I told her "Yeah, I am interested in being just friends". So, we noted names down and I told her I was gonna add her. I sent a message and here is where the problem begins. She declines my friend request. WHY??! She smiled at me first, enjoyed the deep convo we had, and I strictly told her that I was only looking for a friendship and was not hitting on her. Weird. Anyone had the same experience? I hate when a friendship gets rejected lol. Dating rejections don't seem to faze me as much anymore.
-Also, having trouble with my friend overseas. I mistakenly insulted her April 5th and she is rightfully offended. We have been friends since November. I flirt with her and let her know I liked her but she rightfully said "I only see you as a friend because since the beginning, friends was the only option because of the distance." We used to talk a lot, we have lots of commonalities and she has called me "cute" and "very handsome" loads of times. I think it is a good thing I got friended only because I do not believe in an LDR generally and it is because we can focus on other people. I will only try to date her when I meet her because we do have a lot of similarities and we enjoy each other's company.
So the thing is that she does not want to talk. I sent two really long apologies but she said "I just need time. Stop worrying." I have a fear that we will just become "Polite Friends" instead of the weird friendship we have. So worrying about that.
Also, I am worrying about the interaction with the barista. I was very chatty and teased her a bit and also complemented her but I am worrying if I am not being sexual enough. I was not overly flirty but I was very relaxed and social. Urghhhh.