I'll try and keep this brief.. I met a girl recently (about a month ago), and we've recently become exclusive. I found out about two weeks ago that she's a virgin (around the time we became exclusive). She goes to college in Massachusetts but is completing an internship in my city for about 6 months.
I consider myself to be pretty good looking, I've slept with about 15 or so girls but I've never been with a virgin. She says its due to her somewhat religious upbringing, and abstinence messages pushed onto her when she was younger (she's 21), but that she's moved on and wants to have sex soon, and definitely before marriage.
We have done pretty much everything other than intercourse itself (eg oral sex etc) , and every time we come close.. she tells me "not tonight, I'll let you know if/when I'm ready".
Now, I really like this girl, and everything is great, but honestly I can't deal with the no sex part. I've decided I need to make a decision as to whether I should stay with her, or whether I should dump her and move on.
- literally everything else is great, and we get along very well. Its just a situation I've never been in and it feels strange and quite unsatisfying to not be having sex yet!
Curious to see what you all think!