Been awhile bros. A lot has been going on recently for me, and somethings haven't changed much. I'm still a young single guy in want of attractive female companionship. But, I've picked back up guitar, German lessons, been working out and dieting more onsistently the last few weeks, etc. Tues night, I went into Walmart of all places and found this 5'11" crazy bubble booty blonde chick, who turns out to be a volleyball player. Every guy, black and white was checking this chick out as soon as she walked in the store, and I could see she was busy on her phone from the get go. Her face is just decent, it's her incredible figure that makes her insanely attractive. But on to my approach.
I wasn't really going to at first glance, just caught her in a few isles, basically just checking her out, but when she was in the bakery, I wanted a better view. So I asked her to lean or bend down and get a cake for me. Made some other small talk, then teased her on her height (I'm a lot shorter by the way)> She giggled a bit, and I told her that I bet she's a volleyball player. She says yeah, she plays for one of the colleges. We talked about graduation, she's got one year left, blah blah. Now, while my body was nervous (couldn't help it) since I don't do this enough and not with a girl who turns me on this much, I make it through my approach as best I can. If she thinks I'm kinda cute, it'll be interpreted as "cute/quirky" anyway, right? But I tell her that I 'd like to go out with her and ask for her number, and w/o hesitation says sure and appears to motion towards my phone, but I put her number in myself (I'll give it to the girl next time) and I call it (verify) and we talk a bit and depart. She says she's gotta work this weekend, and I say that sucks and we should go out. She says sure...alright then I'm thinking!!!
I text her that night, bc I read already to ignore 3 day crap and if she wants to hear from you, hit her up. I send a flirty, but short text "Normally I don't pick girls up Walmart, but I couldn't help myself My friends are going in the city Sat night, maybe bar crawl a bit, Dave &Busters...can I entice you from working the night away?"
She replies "That sounds great! But I have to get someone to cover my shift if i'm going to miss work! I'l let you know asap" or something like that.
I text back "right on. Shoot me a text; we'll have a good time; promise!"
Now that was same night of getting her digits..
Now, I am making assumptions...this is a banging girl. Her phone is probably always blowing up, so basically who knows. I don't want to be like probably every other thirsty dude, but I definitely want to hook up with her this weekend; she's beautiful and hits every one of my attraction buttons.
How would you assess the interaction and text game? And where should I go from here to make sure or salvage, if it wasn't the best impression..to get her out? I am waiting to here back about her schd atm.
So I haven't heard back, sent a text last night and called today (for fun to see if I was even blocked, bc it's pretty much a foregone conclusion) and I find her on fb and she has A BOYFRIEND. They posted a profile pic like the day before I met her. So she was attention whoring me, or something? I'm not really mad, just confused, bc from a guy's perspective, it seems like a really disrespectful thing to do when you're in a relationship. I wonder if any of you got numbers from girls who have bfs, (and No they weren't trying to cheat, but were just using the free validation/attention?) All I can do is sigh...