I've known this girl about year. She was dating someone and I was perusing someone else. We start hanging out and surfing together and drinking around three months ago.
She's extremely extroverted, she crazy smart, wickedly socially intelligent, and deep down you can tell she cares about people. Oh she's also so much fun to be around. It's never boring.
I'm a really good surfer, and a pretty good dancer. I've been taking dance classes for over a year now. To be honest most would say I have low confidence lol. And they're correct. I'm working on it and getting better. For example, I can objectively tell you I'm good at surfing but I'm shy at displaying it. Weird right?
About a two weeks ago, we go out drinking with friends, and me and her end up at a lounge. We dance the all night. Pretty much only me and her are dancing lol. We end up making out and we end up at her place. I just sleep over and that's it. I've slept over before. It's no big deal.
I end up asking her out to dinner. I kinda cringe on this because for me it's boring lol. But I do it because I think it's expected. Anyway I cancell in person because I get bad vibes about this. I tell her so and so will be there and she understands. It's the other girl I mentioned. She tells me she likes the place and that's all.
I text her again yesterday "hey let's redo dinner ". To be honest the text I sent was so cringeworthy I want to vomit lol. She doesn't reply because she doesn't have her phone on her and I see her surfing that same day. We have the best time ever and we decided to get drinks after. So I'm thinking she hasn't seen my text yet and I'm like fuuuuuuck!! Anyways she calls me and says she has to cancel because she is going to the movies, and I'm thinking fuuuuuuck myyyyy liiiffeee. And that's it. Oh she sends me a weird text after our conversation that has nothing to do with anything, and I'm like "cool thanks!"
As I write this she just texted me "maybe her friend is visiting and we should surf on Friday. I'm gonna respond "lol coooool. I'm down".
What does everyone think?